Am I straight?

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Okay so I’m engaged to a man but is it normal for me to watch lesbian porn and cum from that? I noticed I’m obviously attracted to women cause I stare at them outside to the point that my fiancé notices ugh I’ve never even spoken to a woman in that way and I’ll be way too scared to even do so. I feel so confused.

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Only you can know your sexual orientation. But watching lesbian porn as a straight woman is perfectly normal (in fact I believe I read a statistic once that it’s the most common favorite type of porn for women)

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I watch it sometimes but guarantee I’m straight. I also can look at a woman and think wow she’s really pretty, wish I looked like that.

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I'm pansexual and little things like that are what clued me into it. I originally thought I was possibly a lesbian then I realized I liked men too so I thought I was bi then I realized that my attraction wasn't based or sexual attraction or gender so I landed on pansexuality (I still do get sexually attracted to people of course but, it isn't a basis as to why people are my love interests). Many straight women get off on lesbian porn though as well. It could very well mean nothing. Women just like watching someone knowing what they're doing and lesbian porn tends to be less aggressive towards women and more passionate. If you prefer passionate sex then that could very well be the reason behind your attraction towards other women. Porn can heavily influence your (strictly sexual not orientation) sexual attraction as well. It's kind of like the power of suggestion. Do you get off to your bf? Do you feel that you love him in more than just a best friend kind of way? How were you with other male partners? Did you enjoy your time with them or did it feel underwhelming sexually or just relationship wise? These are questions you have to ask yourself. Bring it up to your bf if you feel safe. One of the ways I came to the conclusion of being pansexual is asking my husband about his attraction and what influenced him to be attracted to certain people. I found alot of what I found attractive wildly different but, sexually I felt the same when sex actually happened. Sexual orientation is very complicated. Find a good person that you can trust and don't be afraid to ask questions and do some research. Good luck and I hope that you find your answer!

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Your straight girl. I think the same sometime because I check out women n just be like omg her body is perfect, or I wish I had an ass like that girl walking by.. I also watch girl on girl porn too, and I’m married and we have two kids.

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I don’t think your bisexual I think you’re straight. Lol It’s normal for women to watch lesbian porn or like 2 girls and one guy.

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Do you feel love and attraction to your fiancé? If so then that’s all you need. 
And sexuality isn’t one or the other, have you considered bisexual?

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You could be bi I’m bi but didn’t find out till I started dating my husband that I was bi but loved my husband and married him but could have easily married my best friend who is also bi

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Sexuality is a multi faceted spectrum. People can be turned on by all sorts of things. 
Are you looking for a label to identify with? Labels genuinely don’t matter if you’re not looking for one—they only exist to give people a way to identify and celebrate who they are and what they want. 
Do you feel attraction and romantic love for your fiancé? If so, you’re living an authentic life and have nothing to change or worry about.
(Note: Not trying to exclude people who are asexual from this statement because you obviously can have an authentic life if you don’t have attraction and romantic feelings for a partner. I asked this because it’s been made clear that she does experience attraction and sexual feelings towards lesbian porn)

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I watch all different types of porn, lesbian, bi, some kinks, (not much straight tbh) but I identify as straight or bi-curious. If I were to ever do a three-some with my bf it would def be with another girl, but I could never marry a girl or spend the rest of my life in a monogamous relationship with one. I do love the female body though!

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You’re just curious lol

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