My husband and I have been married for only a few weeks. He works in a pharmacy and frequently works from 9-7 or later. I know that there is nothing that he can do about his schedule, but it’s resulting in us not being able to spend time together. He gets home, we do chores, we go to bed. If he gets home early, he just wants to sit down and play a game to relax, which I understand, but it’s the only time that we could do something, even if it’s just sitting on the couch watching a movie. And once a month he goes to see his friends three hours away for a weekend, which, again, I get, and I don’t want to stop him from doing that, but it’s even more time that we can’t spend together. I feel like a needy wife when he comes home and I haven’t seen him all day and he doesn’t want to do anything and it makes me really upset. I’m trying very hard to make it work but it’s wearing me down. I try hard to get everything done during the day so that he doesn’t have to do anything, but it doesn’t help. There’s always something in the way.