How mad would you be?

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Okay Soooooo. I’m only 12weeks pregnant and my partner and I haven’t announced to most of the families. Not even our parents as of yet. Reason being we have been trying for number 2 for almost 2 years and having a miscarriage in between we are very quiet on this. We are waiting for a time to suit us to announce. But within an hour I’ve had three people message me asking if I’m pregnant and they all said something about my sister insta (i dont have Instagram) I called her and said how upset we are about it. She is more upset that people ”snitched” on her then how I feel. She ended up deleting it but she said she has no family or close friends on there but it was close enough for me to get messages.   
How would you feel with this? 
This is photo that was uploaded, also will be used as our announcement photo

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You have every right to be furious. She was completely out of line, especially to share that particular photo.
For everyone else reading, don't tell ANYONE anything until you are okay if EVERYONE knows. Very few people actually keep secrets, even people we are close with.
OP, maybe you can do a gender reveal later on and not tell a single soul until you are ready to announce in your own way.

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I’d be pissed. It’s not even subtle. How dare she.

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Omg I would kill her.

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I’d be beyond furious.

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I’d be upset. It wasn’t her news to tell.

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You have the right to be upset. We didn’t tell anyone until I was 16 weeks. Husbands mom kept calling us daily asking when she can let people know and it came to a point where she was hinting to others and we weren’t happy at all. Also she loves her social media and when we noticed her posts hinting about a new grandchild we told her to delete and to not say anything till we’re ready.

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My sister literally did the same exact thing. I was shocked for it to be her who told someone . I was very upset. You have every right to be upset also

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Thank God my sister would never do that, but if she did, I'd be pissed. I probably wouldn't talk to her for a long while. Ugh. People have no respect.

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