Family problems

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Ok so my daughters birthday is today so we are having her birthday party this Saturday and me and my father don’t get along and have problems and always have and I now he is asking me if he is invited to the party and idk how to politely tell him no because he never really checks on my daughter he wasn’t even there when i and my daughter almost died giving birth to her and I told him to come he said no so now idk what to say any advice on what to say or on how to politely say no ur not invited