I'm 32. My husband is 30. We have a 20 month old. He definitely does not want another baby. I have always said that I wanted another one.

We have had very long discussions about both of our sides, I have decided to come to an agreement on January. (When she turns two).

I might be coming around to his side, only having one child.

I know all of the arguments for having more than one. I was an only, lonely child.

But, lately I've been thinking about how out of shape and old I feel, my lower back hurts all the time!! I can't imagine being 38 weeks pregnant again. And I'm worried about how I will handle a baby with my toddler. I am lucky enough to be a stay-at-home mom- with only one baby! It can't get easier than that, right? Lol

Anyway, I guess this was more of a diary entry than a question...

How did you guys decide how many babies to have? When did you decide you were done? what did you do when you and your spouse did not agree on how many babies?