Grandparents are so entitled!

I'm stressed out reading everyone's battles with their parents (babys grandparents). This is happening in my family too. Why do they think they are so entitled, is it because they used to make our rules and now they resent that we make our own? I feel this is a simple issue of respecting another human so why when it's their child having a child do they become so disrespectful and immature of all scenarios?? How unsupportive. I get they are sensitive because they want to feel important or maybe that's my excuse for it, but I've gotten to the point where I'm not discussing anything with anyone and they will just find out when whatever situation arises how it will go down. Whether it be when they are allowed to visit the hospital, visit our home, vaccinations, kissing, whatever! I get so angry and worked up thinking about my own family due to all of this that I feel I'm going to just start avoiding everyone or they are going to get their heads bit off. How dare they put their pride above a newborns safety in the face of facts that SORRY we have access to in today's world.

My patience is gone.

Rant over. -_-