People on this app are so judgmental

Im fringe. That’s why I’m posting to this group (I’m also poly). The women on here seem so bitter that their relationships aren’t fulfilling (not saying mine is 100% it’s not but I prefer it) and leave ridiculous comments/give terrible advice. But I’m also into herbal/plant medicine and other fringe concepts which I thought isn’t that out of the box in a community of cycle trackers but this app sucks. Ppl on here don’t even know what fertility is. Anyway...just venting and trying to find my tribe