Sexual assult?

Olivia

I invited my new neighbor over (just turned 18 and moved out) and we were just gonna chill snd get to know each other. Before he can I sent him a text saying “I have a bf so no nasties” he can over and after a little bit he kissed me. I pulled back and tried to change the subject. I also texted my best friend (who knew we was over) “help” then he kissed me again. I kissed him back so I had time to think how to get out if the situation. He grabbed my hand and put it on his dick. The he kept trying to put his hand down my shorts. He asked to take them off. I said no. He proceeded to anyway. Then he asked to eat me out and again I said no. He did anyway. Then he took his pants off and his dick was near my area. I told him “no, please don’t. I don’t want to lose my virginity to you!” He said he wouldn’t and was just teasing. Then he did. He was very rough. Half way through he pulled out for a min and so I was jerking him off, I knew he wouldn’t leave till he was finished and it hurt a lot for him to go inside since I was a virgin. Then I he asked to go back in, I said no more, then he dragged me across the bed and went back at it, finally he Finished and kissed me goodbye and left. I immediately went to the hospital and reported it, the police say it’s my fault and say since I didn’t fight I have no case (I didn’t fight because he’s 6’4) was this rape? Everyone is saying it’s not. Thanks