Rude Friends

I’m not sure if this is the right place to post this, just wanted to vent a little. So my period is late and I haven’t had the courage to take a test yet. My SO and I aren’t trying to have a baby but I’m not on birth control. I was trying to talk to a friend about how I was feeling and she basically told me to have an abortion if I am in fact pregnant. She summed it up to, that she hates kids, would rather kill her self than have a child and said “ well you won’t be able to drink on your 21st bday or on vacation then. (None of which are an excuse to have an abortion, as well as it not being her child, her body or her choice.) My SO and I have both expressed that we someday want children together but we’re not in a good position to have them now. But I wouldn’t have an abortion for that reason. She made me feel awful about my decision, and I feel totally helpless. No one yet knows that I’m thinking I might be pregnant, and she totally didn’t help how I’m feeling at all.