I’ll never understand why some women think it’s ok to mom shame everyone who doesn’t do exactly what they do!

My SIL who chose to breastfeed decided to mom shame me to a family member (while I was sitting there) because I’m considering bottle feeding instead of breastfeeding & proceeded to tell that family member how HUGE I am and she wasn’t near that big! (While I was sitting there) I haven’t said anything to her about her choice so I don’t understand why she can’t leave me alone with the choice my husband and I have made! The baby WILL be getting fed properly AND well taken care of & most importantly LOVED beyond words!! I just wish we could all support each other instead of putting down.