Bridesmaid drama

‼️‼️*EDIT: Sorry I guess I wasn’t clear enough, this “friend” has made me feel guilty for stupid things like not being able to buy all this stuff from his MLM, not showing up to parties and when I saw I can’t do these things because I’m saving for my wedding, I go to school full time and work 24 hour shifts as a 911 first responder he makes things seem like I don’t care about our friendship therefore he’s not making any effort to be a part of my wedding even though he said he’d be here though it all. Basically he’s getting back at me by making everything an issue like it’s my fault I didn’t tell him months in advance. And it hurts and is stressing me out.‼️‼️

Hi ladies!! So I’m getting married in November and I’m so excited, my bridal party and I are doing the final things together but there seems to be an issue.... so one of my “bridesmaids”, he’s a bridesman lol, seems to be having some sort of problem with me? He told me he can’t make it to the wedding shower because I didn’t tell him far enough in advance. This made me so upset because my mom and sister (maid of honor) are working so hard to throw me and my fiancé a shower. They both work full time and my maid of honor goes to school full time.. am I being dramatic feeling like I just want to kick him out of my bridal party? Is that rude to do??