So I don't really know how not feel about this but it bothers me

Since I moved back home to my old City my Dad hasn't really done nothing for me he doesn't call and check in me he doesn't came by and see me. but the times he do coming over is when my mom wants him over not to come see me but to come see her but she always telling me about how my dad ain't shit and she can never count on him but my thing is why are you texting and calling him to come over to see you it just hurts my feeling that my my mom is doing shit like this. She would just out of nowhere be like oh yo daddy coming over and in my head I be like it's not like he coming to see me so why should I care if he comes over she would have the nerve to tell me to call my dad and see if he still coming and I told her that she is the one who wanted him to come over she should call him

( Sorry if this is all over the place )