C-section ???

To the ladies whom have had a c-section so, I called my doctor that I won’t be able to make it to my 6 week check up and that i was bleeding. The assistant said, okay well if you can’t make it we don’t reschedule only if you want birth control. I said , okay well doesn’t she need to check me to give me the clear if I’m okay to pick up heavy stuff and if i can have sex now when I’m done bleeding . First time having a c -section and I tied my tubes . Any ladies have this happen is okay to no check myself for my 6 week check up ????

To the ladies asking why can’t I make it !!!

My son just got discharged from the NICU on Friday . The doctor didn’t want him going nowhere until his 2 month shots and i have no one to leave him with .

When I said , can I reschedule she said , no unless you’re coming for birth control . I said , doesn’t she have to give me the clear after checking me she said no you just go on with your life . That’s why I’m so confused