10 years just went down the drain..I just told my husband that I wanted a divorce. We have been having problems for weeks already. He drinks there was a day he didn’t come home he ignored me all day he rather be his male cousins then coming home to fixing the problem. We have been financially struggling for months and the stress just keeps building up..I’m very down and feel really sad for my kids .... he’s not even home now idk what to do