Boyfriend’s mother🙄

My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and half now, and the times his mother has spoken more than hi or goodbye to me I could probably count on one hand. She hasn’t gotten to know me doesn’t ask me questions I just get a hi when I go to his house and a goodbye when I’m leaving. When we have dinner all together she only talks to her daughter and her son (my bf) about things that don’t involve me. When she finishes eating she goes to her room and stays there all night.

I don’t know if I’m just over sensitive but I honestly, I’ve never felt welcome since day 1 and every time she shuts down our plans I just feel like she’s trying to interfere so I walk away. I don’t want to bring it up with my boyfriend because its his mum and that’s all he’s got but I seriously don’t know what to do. It’s gets to me, and when it does I put a wall up and just distance myself from my boyfriend.

Little things happen I just get in my own head and start to think negatively. My boyfriend just recently told me that his mum won’t let him drive and stay over because she doesn’t want him to leave his car outside of my place because she has something against where I live because apparently she was robbed in a completely different suburb to where I live. But apparently it’s ok for my boyfriend to keep his car outside of his family home where people have tried to break into neighbours cars. Like that doesn’t even make sense. Little things she does may not be a big deal but it cements my feelings if she truely likes me and honestly it just gets into my head.