My husband pissing me off

My husband always tries to embarrass me or brings up embarrassing stuff and some that I am sensitive about and he knows I don’t want to talk about.

I am PP and feel very self conscious about my body and he will always bring up “where do you think you’re fat?” If I just say I’m feeling self conscious wearing something (not even saying fat) and if we are cuddling he will always grab my fat.

It’s like he keeping putting it in my mind and sending me out reminders that I am fat without straight up telling me I he thinks I’m fat.

And for reference it’s not like it’s a heath concern and he’s trying to help me be healthy. I am 5’4 120 but used to be 108 before baby and my stomach has rolls now.