Update: yeah I’m being harassed by the mothers friends. They will comment nasty things on pictures of my daughter. I don’t know what to do. I’m gonna flip my lid I swear.....

My husband has another child other than the one we have together. The mom absolutely will not work with us. It’s been about 11 months since the last time we all spoke. Essentially the mom used him to get pregnant then very quickly they broke up. He had been unhappy for a long time and was unaware of her pregnancy when they first broke up. When he started dating me, she decided to tell him.

So he went to a few appointments and sat down in a coffee shop to talk things out with her. She was unreasonable and no longer wanted him around. This hit him hard but eventually he came to the conclusion that if she was happier and better off without him there to help then who is he to mess with that?

Now I’m pretty sure some people are gonna literally shit on me for this post. I prefer if you didn’t as I’m pretty sure this is a safe place for me to just rant and as I see it, weve done nothing wrong. She doesn’t want us and now after a bit of time we don’t want her. I just feel bad for the baby. I think about it all too often.