when you’re with your partner, does there always have to be talking?

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when im with my partner sometimes we get bored and don’t talk. is that bad? he ends up a little moody when we don’t talk, but i’m not bothered by it very much because i just enjoy his company, even if its in silence. but i feel like he feels that we constantly need to be doing something together or constantly talking. so, is it bad if there isn’t any talking or things going on?

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Me and my so have been together for 4 years..   We spend a good amount of time together and it could be silent which at first upset me a little but.... I'm beginning to see the beauty in silence

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Depend. Not always but from time to time, it’s okay to have one of those “silent moment”, like you’re just so happy to be with your partner that, that’s all it matter.
But, it’s very important to let your partner know how you feel and why you’re like that so there wouldn’t be any misunderstandings. 
Cos if you’re quiet or too quiet, he’d assumed that there’s something going on. 
And, if you talked to him about it already and he still feel like there should be a lot of talking in the relationship, try to work it out.

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Im going to say no, im still afraid in my newer relationship to be completely silent most of the time, and I think he is too, but he says "we don't need to talk all the time. It's ok to be quiet." And, I'm very quiet in general, so of course it will occur sometimes. 
We still aren't that comfortable together yet sometimes, so I guess that doesn't happen all that long.
I mean, me & my best friend get quiet together or even on the phone sometimes, lol. Being quiet isn't bad! It can be a sign that you are comfortable.

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I really enjoy silence. It’s nice to sit together while I play on my phone and he plays his game. Or were both on our phone. Or im watching tv and he’s texting his friends. I feel like being silent is a good sign you’re both comfortable and settled with eachother. Sometimes we have silent dinners because our days were just too much human interaction and we need a minute to reset. Sometimes he talks a lot and I’m silent. Sometimes I talk and hes silent. A lot of times we won’t even turn the tv on and well just sit here and enjoy the quiet

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I feel the same as you. Me and my guy aren’t official yet, but I really really enjoy his company so much and I want to text just because we can’t see each other everyday

when you’re with your partner, does there always have to be talking?

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