Should I tell or should he?

Oooook! So it’s probably like reallly really late to ask but me and the hubs are renewing our vows. Long story short we’re not having reception.

So it basically vows and a photo shoot!

My mother in law who could not be at the first wedding ask me to let her know if we were having it when it was in the talking stage.

I told my husband after we decided to do it, to tell her we were definitely doing it but it would be small and quick so it not worth the thousands of dollars she’d have to spend get to us.

(All our family lives far, far for us)

I don’t think he ever tell her and so I never told anyone.

Well I told my immediate family (some of them)

But to be honest no one checks for me.

Even attempts to visits.

Anywho should “I” have told my mother in law or should he have?

And should I tell my other in laws or should I just post the pictures online where they can see?

I always been JUST me and him over there past 5 years so....?

It’s going to be me and him, the officiant and the photographer.

Will people get pissy about no invite? 🤷🏼‍♀️

Update for the commenters!

They have a weird relationship. So I try to stay out of it. I have had issues in the past with my husband by being between them so I just send pic of the kids and that it. I limit communication so I still put their drama.

Also she doesn’t have a lot of money so guess so probably have to pay for or help with the tickets. And where is lives to where we live the flights are expensive. Plus hotel & food. For a 15 minute ceremony?