Please stop with the comments!

Being a plus size women, I've heard so many comments about my belly and my pregnancy. It hurts more than I thought it would.

"You're pregnant? Wow! I had no idea!"

"Oh, well you don't look pregnant!" Etc.

And this one I heard today, and it takes the cake, and I finally replied.

"Oh, I can finally see your baby bump now!" I replied with, "only took 32 weeks!" I was kinda snappy to be honest. Mostly as a self deprecating comment but also because I couldn't believe she said that.

The woman who said that to me today has seen me every week at church. We told the church at 5 weeks. Another woman at my church (who is rather short, 5'1) found out at the same time that she too was pregnant. She has literally looked pregnant since 12 weeks. She is 3 weeks ahead of me. I am 5'8 and over weight.

I cant stop comparing. I just want to pull a Meredith Grey and hide out until I have this baby.