No bond yet 36 weeks pregnant

I keep being told I need to talk to the baby to bond with him but I don’t feel this helps. even though I’m excited to meet him I don’t feel I have a bond yet. I obviously am protective over my bump & don’t want anything bad to happen but I’m worried I’m not bonding as much as other people seem to be. I’m hoping I will bond more when he is here. Is anyone else feeling the same?