Stressed

I need help! My in laws have been giving me so much anxiety lately. I was fine with them before my son was born.

When ever we bring our son to see them they always get right in his face ooouuuing and awwing and sometimes he cries and they will say “ he doesn’t know us” like it’s dig right at me!

But if someone was constantly in my face I wouldn’t really like it?? Also kissing his face really bothers me but I’m too scared to say anything incase it upsets my husband.

They also keep pushing to have him over night and for a couple hours he’s 4 months old and I’m not ready! I know everyone’s different but I just can’t.

I really don’t know what to do even going to see them with my baby at this point gives me anxiety.