How do you guys feel when older women bash you or others for TTC when your under 20?

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I never would have imagined I would be TTC at 18, but I am. I was told by my gyno after being diagnosed with endometriosis that if I wanted to ever conceive I needed to do it in the next 3-5 years. I have endometriosis and will more than likely be having a partial hysterectomy by 25. At the age of 18, I am running out of time to have a child of my own. I get so angry when older women criticize me for being so young and TTC, they don't take the time to understand the circumstance. With that being said, I am fortunate. My fiancé makes enough money so I don't have to work and we just bought a house. So even if I wasn't pinched on time, why does anyone have the right to tell me I can't properly raise a child? We are financially stable. We can provide an amazing life for a little bundle of joy, if we ever get blessed with one.
Sorry for the rant ladies. I just needed a safe place to go off.

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Can I vote all of the above? Gosh, so many people bash people for ttc under the age of like 23 but there's some people out there who are more mature at 18/19 than some who are 30-35. I was 13 years old practically baby sitting my drunk mother. I make better life choices than both my parents put together, and everyone in my family can vouch for me on that. If I want a baby at 19 and I can support it 100% then that's on me, my responsibility, my life. And no one should feel bad because someone looks down on them for being ready.

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Honestly I don't care they suck my ass!! Its my life and I can do what ever the hell I want with it! If I want to have a baby at 18 then let me because you're not my mother and you're not the one taking care of it..I am so they can keep their two cents to there self!🌚

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This really bothers me. Age shouldn't matter as long as you can support yourself and a child. I'm currently just turned 19 and both of us have new cars, and just purchased a house, and have decent jobs to support ourself. Can't judge before you know someone and their story!

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Depends. If they are much older and don't know anything about my financial and home life then I would get kinda angry. But I look at some young ladies on here and can't help but roll my eyes because they are 14-17 and live in their parents house with no job and a fling boyfriend and I think that is just silly. I'm married and live on my own with my husband and we are financially stable.

How do you guys feel when older women bash you or others for TTC when your under 20?

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