I just need to throw myself a pity party

I've been ttc for about 4 months and have had a friend that has been ntnp with her bf since around the same time. She stopped bc then started again then stopped again so she really hasn't had a period since then. We tested together last week and they were both negative, well for me AF showed up two days later. She got her BFP last night. I'm obviously super happy for her and am gonna spoil that baby and am going to plan her gender reveal and shower and everything, but when she called me at 12:30 this morning I felt like I got hit by a truck. This was supposed to be my month. It doesn't help that this period has been super weird. Like it came 2 days early, has been going on for 7 days now, I'm just now only spotting. It hasn't been as heavy as normal at all, no clots. And I'm just now cramping like a mf. On top of that I worked 7 days straight and only got yesterday off before a stretch of 4 more, 2 of them being doubles so I haven't been getting enough sleep and my allergies are killing me. What a week 😭