I give up ! Enough is enough

37 weeks and me and my SO don’t even talk. Friday things were good. He went to work Saturday to get overtime and I got mad because he is usually off at 9/10am but didn’t get home until 12:30pm and I told him I needed to take the car to the shop so I went by myself and it’s frustrating because they were trying to overprice me and he wasn’t there to help. But when he needs something it’s let’s do it right now.

Then when I got home he was sleep, he stayed in the room and watched tv all day and I stayed in the living room. He already works Monday-Friday 1:30-10:30pm and Saturday’s and Sunday’s are the only day’s we actually can spend the whole day together. Well, Saturday he didn’t speak to me. He even slept in the living room. I asked why and he said “we’re not good” because I got mad he went to work at 4am, and he’s normally off at 9/10am but choose to come back at 12:30. This morning he just put on the football game and didn’t say shit to me. I was In the kitchen doing dishes that been sitting up there for the past 3 days...I left it there to see if he would at least often to do it since I’m pregnant, and my wrist is wrapped up from carpal tunnel. But of course he didn’t offer so I took the brace off and did it myself.

Once I finished he walks out with the laundry basket and leaves. It pisses me off because every Sunday we go to the bar and watch the games together and do laundry next door. Instead he went off by himself and didn’t even bother acknowledging me but he made sure to grab the vodka from under the sink.

I told him don’t bother coming back.

He doesn’t help now it’s only going to get worst when the baby gets here!!

Cool he pays rent half the rent, but I cook, I clean, I buy all the baby stuff. I pay for groceries

Not once has he bought anytime baby related...He never even gave me money and said use it for the baby. Instead I do it all. Even when shopping together I pay for it. Before he got his truck he always used my car but now that I needed his help to just go with me to see what’s wrong with my car he can’t make time for it, but he sure as hell can ask me to do everything when it’s convenient to him.

He’s so selfish. He goes out his way to send his son $250 for shoes all the time. But When there was an issue with the truck he drove my car around. Whenever he needs paperwork filled out, he tells me he needs it done ASAP and I do it. He told me to fill out court paperwork for child support and send it out and I do. Then it’s my fault when it’s returned because it wasn’t filled out wrong. He told me he needs me to get his truck register. He doesn’t do shit for me as much as he claims.