Why do men treat me like crap?

My whole life, the men I'm closely associated with always treat me like crap. I don't know what I've done to deserve this. My dad, my brother, my Male bosses, my ex, and now my husband all have treated me like crap. Like today, I'm minding business cooking breakfast and my husband is already nagging me about not having unloaded the dishwasher and making a mess with cooking, then later he yells at me because I didn't yet fill up the gas tank, which I was going to do today, and because his driving hat he wears was missing, because I let my sister borrow it top. go to the pool yesterday because she forgot her hat, but she forgot to return it. Then he spent $130 on groceries yesterday, but I didn't understand what actual food he bought, because all I saw was two packages of chicken $5 each, a package of bratwurst, and hotdog buns, and the rest was just snack cakes, lunchables and chips for his lunch and soda and propel water that only he drinks, and dog and cat food. Then he got mad at me for asking him and yelled at me that next time I should be doing the groceries if I complain. FML!!!! 😥😪🙁