I am not blowing you off.

i just wish all my friends would realize this..

I am not blowing you off, i am tired.

I am not blowing you off, the baby is fussy.

I am not blowing you off, i just haven’t cleaned my house in days.

I am not blowing you off, i just haven’t showered in days.

I am not blowing you off, i just still have to give the baby a bath and do 100 other things.

I am never blowing anybody off, i am getting used to being a mother. I just had a baby TWO weeks ago, and its hard. I’m getting used to little sleep, not being able to shower, hell I probably haven’t ate in two days. Its hard.

When i tell you “ i’m sorry, i can’t hang out “ or “ no im not up for visitors right now “ it’s because i literally can’t. I don’t want you getting mad at me for it, just please try and understand, i am a new mom and im learning how to adjust to things with a newborn..