I have a close relative that has chosen not to give her two small children vaccination in fear that they might get autism. I believe in vaccinating and our child will be getting shots. I'm just not sure how/when to tell her that I will not allow her or her children around when the baby comes till our baby is protected. I understand that she is family but I have to protect my baby. I feel like I need to tell her soon cause I know she will want to come around when she's born but it just feels wrong to drop the bomb on her right when she is born.. I know it's going to cause a lot of drama between the family and that's not what I want. I just want to protect our baby.

I've been thinking about this for awhile but just can't figure out what is best. Advice.???

(I'm not interested in discussing or debating if vaccations is the right thing to do. I feel strongly about my decision)