Therapy

So my son has been in birth to three since we found his birth trauma to actually have some effects on his development he’s been doing great but I feel like this lady is expecting a lot out of a 14month old she wants him to be doing the it’s bitsy spider and pointing and giving us things he doesn’t even clap I feel like that’s asking a lot out of him I believe in him learning at his own pace I mean the kid still doesn’t answer to his name and only says dada and momma I feel like she is setting us up for failure and that this stuff is to much for him