New Guy

Ugh. It's been 3 years since I had to worry about this kind of thing...

Having sex for the first time with someone.

I'm used to just being with my ex, so when I wanted it, I got it, and we were comfortable together. He knew how to please me and I knew how to please him. It wasn't much worries.

Now with the new guy I'm sitting here worrying about if it's too early, if he'll lose respect for me if I put out so soon (we've only been together a month), if we'll be compatible, and on top of that he's a virgin (he's never even had a bj because the girl he was with before was a christian who didn't believe in anything before marriage)... I don't want to give him sex if he's just using me to lose his virginity but I don't feel like that's his motive. I don't know... I feel like I'm trying to be smart about it but I'm also trying not to let my trust issues from my ex sabatouge my relationship with someone else... what do I do? Lol

I'm 20, he's 24 by the way...

I feel like I'm out of my element here...

Any advice would be much appreciated