Relationship: too close or not

Samantha • Ohana means family and family means no one gets left behind or forgotten.
How much would seeing each other would people think? If someone said there in each other's pockets or see each other too much, how much would that be? I keep getting told I'm with my bf too much but we see each other on a Friday night, sat morning and night but not in the day as he works, Sunday till 3-4, Wednesday night, some of Thursday morning. Is this too much? We get 3-4 days to ourselves. It's getting me down and making me feel stupid in my relationship as if I'm the one that's too much. What is too close for someone :/