So my Fiancé and i are writing our own vows. It was our plan from the very begining. Well the thing is this, i am worried that my vows will be a lot longer than his. We are not seeing each other's vows until the wedding. I don't want to give him a minimum/limit to how much we have to write, but i think it could be a little weird if he has like 12 lines and i have 30! I am trying to cut mine back a little (it is under 2 minutes long right now) but it feels awkward. What should i do? I don't want to feel that i outdid him or something....ugh.