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Been going threw that for 8 years now. My SD mom tells her, her dad left her, he didn’t want her. He is a bad man. Im not her mom and never will be. She doesn’t have to listen to me. That are house isnt her home snd never will be. Ect ect. It goes on and on. Its to the point, that my stepdaughter is afraid to tell her mom, she had a good time at her dads. We keep communication limited with my husbands ex. And we just explained to my stepdaughter that some times adults say weird things because there going threw stuff, and there unhappy, but that doesn’t mean them to be true. We also explained that she know right from wrong. So just because her mom said something ugly, doesn’t mean she gets to repeat it. Or be ugly with people. She is a big girl and is responsible fir her own actions. We refrain from saying anything negative about her mother in front of her. We refuse to sink to her level. We treat her the way we always do, and pray someday she will see the bad things her mother does, and desires to be a better person then she is.
My step daughters Mother
Okay so my step daughter is 3. She loves coming here with me and her dad but her mom is so crazy!!! Like if he addresses a problem or a concern, she brings up 5 different things because she really has no idea what to say and she knows she’s in the wrong of whatever it is. Well this happened the other night and when we took my SD home- me, her dad and her mom got into a big fuss. Now everytime my SD comes over she acts weird. Her mother has filled her head with all kinds of stuff. Everytime something like this happens, she dogs us to my SD. My SD barely even wants to sit by us. She will sit at the end of the couch in the corner. Has anyone else had these kinda issues?? If so plz give me advice. Thank you!
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