Who gets up with baby?

When your baby cries at night who gets up? You or your husband/bf/so? You guys take turns? Gets up with you? Alternate? Just wondering how this works in other relationships. And do you guys think that just because the husband or boyfriend works and the mom is a stay at home mom she should have to get up at night only? I feel like being a SAHM is a full time job in itself and there should be help getting up at night too thoughts.....

I really wanna find a fair “schedule” that works for us... starting to feel resentment. And it’s not healthy i know. I’m sleep deprived and just want a little help 😓🥺

Btw.... my husband doesn’t get paternity leave... at all.