10 weeks 4 days and not feeling “pregnant”

So some background info: this is my third pregnancy. First two resulted in miscarriages at about 8 weeks. For both of those prior pregnancies, I immediately felt bloated, fingers were swollen, pants were tight. I *felt* pregnant.

This time, I’ve seen the baby’s heartbeat three times. Last ultrasound was at 8 weeks and everything was developing normally and looked great. I’m still tired and a little nauseous although those symptoms have tapered. My boobs still feel swollen and sore but I’m down 7 pounds! My pants fit great. And I’m just nervous that maybe this means the baby isn’t developing the way it should be.

Has anyone else felt this way? I am pretty tall (5’9”) and I know every body is different and every pregnancy is different. Just wondering if anyone felt like they were maintaining or even losing weight during the first trimester despite being able to keep food down.