I want to leave my BF

We have been together for a little over a year now, October will mark a year since we got our rent house together. He isn’t physically abusive or anything, but I think he may be verbally some. We both work, and god forbid I didn’t do something because I was tired from working all day (just like him) but it’s a “woman’s” job to clean. Don’t get me wrong, I love him to pieces and he can be very sweet too. Surprise dates, roses (not after we fight, just randomly), little letters, and just random things like that. So I can’t complain too much I guess.

It’s not necessarily that it’s the spark being gone, but he does things I’ve spoken to him about that make me feel a certain way and he still chooses to do so.

He shared a picture of a “sexy” woman in lingerie and I told him “oh my dad would love that” and his response was that he was grown and could do whatever he pleased. I’m just tired of him disregarding my feelings and everything. He’s constantly looking at other women and choosing to masturbate than be intimate because “it’s too much”. I just don’t know what to do. Anything helps. Thanks.