Relationship opinion

I have been dating this guy since New Years and I don’t want to start an argument I just want to know if I’m wrong for feeling this way. My boyfriend is out of town so sometimes his parents message me whenever they need to get ahold of him for to tell him what it is they need to tell him. Well I planned on seeing my boyfriend this weekend but his mother messaged me how she wanted to surprise him this weekend to go see him so long story short she asked if I wanted to go with her to go visit my boyfriend together I said it was fine with me I didn’t find it a problem well she ended up texting me my boyfriend don’t want us together and that I can go see him on my own separately. I’m not mad but I am bothered by it because it’s almost been a year since we’ve been together and whenever I would go over to his house he would hide me from his family which made me feel uncomfortable sometimes to where I found it pointless to go over to his house. There were times I would be i his room all day and he would leave me in his room whenever his family came home. I’ve never said anything because I get in the beginning we were barely dating so I didn’t press it but now it’s almost a year and he’s still being the same way he mentions how he wants me to move with him to California but yet he hides me from his family still. Would you keep sticking around or am I being selfish for getting up set about the situation? No I am not mad that he told his mom for us to go separately either because I get it he hasn’t seen his mom in 4 months and I thought about not going anyways because I rather her see him alone anyways but when she texted me that it kind of bothered me a bit. Should I bring it up or leave it alone?