I really need a little advice
Hello Ladies,
I could really use your help right now, so my fiancee and I have been having a problem which I only know (he doesn't know we have a problem yet). he has been and still is actually we both are still living in his dads house i have talked about us moving out but he says we facing a financial crisis which I understood and I was willing and still am to help in one way or the other but he is acting like he doesn't need my help so I thought he was being so relaxed and comfy the way we were being at his dad's while i wish i would drown everyday in that house.... being with My dad in law to me is stressing i dont have privacy i cant handle and care for my man the way i want to we are actually like little kids at home coz i cant love him and neither can he love me right back the right way
So I talked to my sis in law to be and she gave me advice to get pregnant not only her but everyone in his fam is saying so and they said that having a kid will help him man up more and think big so two weeks ago it was my Ovulation day and he had sex with me and he cum in me it was weird coz he doesn't do it often and so did he the next day
He asked me to take the pill which i did but hesitantly coz i was still thinking about what his fam had told me but shit happened and i Threw it up I didnt think of taking another one immediately but he found out i threw up and keeps making me feel bad about me throwing up and making it look like i intended to throw it up (we also had an argument about it) i tried to tell him i didnt but he refuses to believe me so
Shit happens I have missed my period I haven't had a test but i know i am pregnant coz of my feels and all I personally am cool with being pregnant but am scared he will reject the pregnancy and keep saying i intended it and he refuses to take responsibility or ask for an abortion or hate the kid... My worry is if he does that what do i do or should i just be quiet and terminate it without him knowing.
Achieve your health goals from period to parenting.