Honest answer please, will you be sad if your child loves their dad more than you?

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I do t know how I feel. My son wants us for different things. If hurt, tired or just to cuddle he wants me.  To play he wants his dad.  I think he loves us the same but my husband think he loves me more. But I home more than dad. I’m a sahm, were he works 7 days a work.  When daddy is off once a month my son will not leave his side and wants to play all day with daddy and only wants me for bedtime

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I have a 10 year old son from a past relationship and with my husband I have a 2 year old daughter. 
She loves him! And she loves my MIL. lol. She sometimes loves on me. But only when my husband is at work. If he’s home I’m like chopped liver. It does make me sad. But I’m ok with it. I still tell her how much I love her even thought she doesn’t really want to hear it all the time.  
I mention my son because he has always been my best little buddy. He’s been with me while I went through major changes. He loves me and always come to me for anything. So yea...my husband has our daughter but I have my son. It’s fine. I love them both with my whole heart though.

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I have a daughter from a previous relationship, it was her and I for almost 2 years so she’s pretty stuck on mommy. She still isn’t very close with her dad and doesn’t even care to see him on his weekends. But she’s obsessed with cuddling my husband and just being all in his face kissing him lol. ( she’s 6 ) ... I’m now pregnant with another little girl with my husband and I’m hoping they are super close because I never got to witness that with my first daughter ( the father daughter connection ). So if she loved him a little more then she loves me I’ll be okay with that :)

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It does hurt a little bit but I always tell my bf “enjoy it now because when he’s older I’ll definitely be his favorite” lol

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If im being honest, yes ill probably feel some type of way about it from time to time. Am i going to get angry at my baby or  my husband? Of course not. Will i be jealous? Probably. A little bit. its my job to make sure i keep that in check & not have it cause problems in the family. Having a baby is not about me. Its just as important for baby to bond with dad.

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No.. my daughter is definitely a daddy’s girl.

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I think it’d be different if I didn’t love my husband so much.. like if we weren’t together or he wasn’t a ‘good’ dad I would be annoyed 😅
My 15month old bloody adores him. She gets so happy when she sees him and he gets the biggest giggles during their play time. 
In my situation it’s great because bub 2 is coming in 4 months, and I won’t need to worry as much about my first, knowing she isn’t super attached to or needy of me.

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Currently pregnant with a girl and I always tell my husband to prepare for her to want him all the time lmao since I’m a daddy’s girl too i def get it!

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I’m a daddy’s girl so I might understand 😄

Honest answer please, will you be sad if your child loves their dad more than you?

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