Is he tryna make me feel below him

So I’m a junior in college and living with my parents. They make sure I’m not hungry, gave me a car so I can go to school, and basically house me. I’ve taken about 5 classes every semester and classes during the summer and winter intercession. I’m grateful for them and everything do for me!

I started dating this guy and we were talking about if we were to have kids . What would be the age limit for them to stay w us? Or in other words be “under our care.”

He said it would be 23. I said “Hey, you’re 23! Haha.” And he said, “Yeah I’m 23 but technically you’re still UNDER your parents. My parents and I are like roommates because I pay for things like bills.”

I don’t know why that made me upset. I dont like the fact that he said I’m “under them” as if I’m a child. I’m being taken care of yes, but my parents wouldn’t stop me from me working and going off on my own. I hate how he said “You don’t pay bills so that means your under your parents and cant really have a say”

BRUUUHHH he’s talking to me like my parents don’t allow me to do things 😭😭 I was so frustrated.

Doesnt he live w his parents too?!?! Why is he using the word “under” as if I’m a fcking 14 year old child. If he thinks I’m so incapable of doing things like PaYiNg bIlLs maybe he shouldn’t date me. Anyways, yeah. That’s what happened but you guys can tell me if I’m overreacting .

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My parents don’t do everything for me. I go to school myself. I get these A’s by myself. I go to appointments by myself. I vote by myself. I am not an incapable human being. I think y’all are just mad your parents kicked you out at 18 and had you struggling because they didn’t ensure you had the best future. There’s a reason why my daddy’s a doctor and my moms a Teacher/Business woman 🤷🏽‍♀️ Family is important! Goodbye hating asses in the comments 🤣🤣