Beyond annoyed!!!

I have such a bad cold and I’m pregnant I feel terrible but still take care of our kids well my husband had diarrhea last night and he got upset I wasn’t by his side but I just felt so sick and what could I do for him, so today I asked him to help me up I feel so weak and can’t take much because of the pregnancy , he said I’m not helping you because you didn’t help me last night I just can’t believe how he constantly compares himself to me I can’t say I’m tired or he says so am I