need helpppp 🙄🙄

so i’ve been having trouble cumming during sex but every time i masturbate its so easy for me . & my friends tell me how intense orgasms be while they have sex & i’ve always wanted to have one but i just cant . my sex partner is really good so im started to think its me . 🥴 & when i finger myself im close to orgasms but thats like after i’ll cum the first time after rubbing my clit .