Nothing to do with TTC..I need a break!

Michelle

Hi, so I'm hosting christmas this year. It's the first year in my house and I cant wait to have a kitchen to cook in!! Previous years we have gone to my SIL and its pot luck style..but this year i want to provide the full spread for everyone. In place of a potluck item I was thinking about asking everyone to bring a bag of non-perishable food items to donate to the local food bank. Is this rude?