How to make TTC not a chore?

So my boyfriend and I have been trying for, at least, 10 months. Half the time we winged it! Just had unprotected sex, had fun, etc, but after joining Glow, I saw a lot of the community using ovulation strips. I saw the amount of success, etc, so in March, I started tracking it. In May, I became pregnant but miscarriaged in July.

Since then, I’ve been adamant about tracking my ovulation, having sex during ovulation week, etc because it worked! I got pregnant two months after serious tracking!

This issue is, after I miscarriaged and after grieving, I’ve been non stop, “ We need to do it now! Today’s the best day!” Yada yada yada and I can hear myself... I’m nagging and taking all the fun out.

How do you guys make it fun? My boyfriend isn’t into lingerie, I’ve done the whole sexy, straddling him on the couch, etc... am I the only one? Help!