My husbands dad was put on hospice yesterday, he went to the hospital with his sisters. He called me on his way home and said he was coming home for now. He got home and stayed outside for a while on the phone. He came in the house and didn’t say anything. I gave him a hug and he collapsed into tears. Based on the conversation we had nothing lead to me thinking his dad had passed away yet.

I got a text message from his half brothers wife about flowers for the service. I found out my husbands dad passed away in a text message from my husbands sister in law. I’m venting here bc I won’t say anything to my husband. I don’t want to make him feel bad about it but I feel like crap that if was over 12hrs before I found out.

So I’m just putting it here to get it off my chest

Edit - he told my sister who lives upstairs

He called a buddy at work and told them and a few other people 😐. I am assuming he thinks I knew and I’m trying to not take it personally I’m just hormonal from just having a baby so my feeling are feeling hurt. I know it sounds ridiculous and I’m obviously not going to say anything to my husband about it. I just needed somewhere to express how I was feeling about it