what to do im having a relationship with someone who is married already

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i know that it is disgusting but we fall in love with each other.. at first we wre nothing at all lust drive us but he began to let me feel special until he did horrible things like such much effort ??? i want to end our relationship but i loved him..

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I could never be a home wrecker. It happened to me. It hurts to have your whole life ripped out from underneath you.

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I could not imagine how I would feel if I were his wife but I know I would be devastated when I found out, and she WILL find out. Do NOT mess with a married man I don't care what your feelings are. He's a dog for leading you on and personally, I don't think much better for being with him knowing he's married. Let him deal with his shit at home before you even think about "loving" him. There's millions of people in this world, choose another douchebag who is not married! Also, I agree what these ladies said in their comments. 
​You're considered a home wrecker. He would do the same to you and wouldn't think twice about it. Drop him and MOVE ON without any contact with him! Be better than that.... if you are better than that.

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yes it's horrible. a married person is not 1, he/she is part of another person and you are affecting the spouse's life with this selfishness. there is a world full of men out there

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Sorry for being harsh
 But im so against it that it's ridiculous.

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Is this a joke???
Cause you SHOULD already know what to do...if he doesn't have respect for his old bitch what makes you think he will have respect AND love only you?... 
Not to mention if he really loves you then why he still with her? CAUSE HE STILL WANTS HER TO BE KNOWN WHILE YOU ARE BEHIND CLOSED DOORS. HE'S NOT JUST PLAYING HER...HE'S PLAYING WITH YOU AS WELL. BOTH AS A FOOL AND WITH YALLS EMOTIONS...
Just back down it's not worth it...

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I know how you feel. LIKE SHIT !  I once was in your shoes till I started feeling bad for the wife than I did myself.  
Married man who cheats are part of the reason diseases spreads so easily.  
You're beautiful and you'll soon have someone of your own.

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I know I'm going to get crap for this but you don't owe the wife anything.  If you decide to get out do it because you want to not because you feel bad

what to do im having a relationship with someone who is married already

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