What annoys me.

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Just thinking... I got up this morning ,a late night with my fiancé and I feel like it is everyday that this crosses my mind.. It's hard for me to conceive and I am very young aswell, but when it comes to 14+ year olds who have a lot ahead of them and woman who are profoundly overweight and have no wanting of a child, get pregnant.... They don't want a child they will rather give it up. I mean it's unfair and it's always just stuck in my mind... I want to experience the joys of having my little baby in me, and it's so hard but yet so easy for everyone else at the same time.. Just venting but does anyone have this cross there mind more then once a day?

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Sure, some do struggle over weight and some don't when trying to concieve but why are you making it seem like people who are overweight don't deserve an chance to get pregnant too?  I honestly feel like you're calling out people because your bitter. Don't be like that. Don't question others lives when you have your own to worry about.

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Shes saying that being overweight you statisticly should have trouble getting pregnant. She is healthy and of a good age and still cant get pregnant. I understand what your saying. Its difficult to see others getting pregnant and for some reason you cant even though statistics say it should be you. Dont give up im in the same boat been trying for a year.

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You make it sound like overweight people shouldn't have babies. That may not be what you meant, but that's how some are taking it.

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Wow some people are getting booty hurt. I know exactly what you mean. I didn't take it the wrong way! You stated a fact. Literally. No one is perfect. No one we allllllll know that. Best of look to you! I'm Ttc #1 :)

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I have been TTC for going on 10 years and I do think of how unfair it is that I can't get pregnant. This is my life and my struggle and it has nothing to do with others no matter their age or weight, I really don't understand what you meant by overweight people getting pregnant. Try to forget about others around you and you won't feel so bad, this is what I had to do. Are you going to the doctors for help? How long have you been trying?

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Ok while we are judging everyone else over being big or their age. Maybe it would be nice to go find a mirror and look in it. Noone is perfect you just proved your not. So instead of focusing on the imperfections of others you can focus on your own. Fix yourself make yourself perfect then you can go judging others.

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I understand. It feels like a knife to the gut seeing someone else blessed with all the babies they can handle while having to see your family stay small. My husband and I have ttc almost 3 years and it's tough to keep the bitterness at bay when you see someone get pregnant so easily. The truth is you won't be able to keep your cool everyday and thats ok. Just remember that even though it seems unfair it doesn't mean they don't deserve that happiness as well.

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