Leave or stay?

Question

I want a baby now. My fiancée wants to wait till after I graduate school next year I’ll be 30 and I have  PCOS.
My friends tell me to leave him and I’ll be able to find someone who wants it sooner. 
Would you go or wait and chance infertility?

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You really can’t wait a YEAR? Lol and who in their right mind would Impregnate someone purposely within a year of they aren’t married?!?? Sounds like you need to leave your husband if you are seriously considering leaving him because you won’t wait a year.

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Uh find someone new who wants one sooner?  You mean have a baby with a complete stranger?
Just get a sperm donor if that’s what you’d rather do, but one year isn’t long at all

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Your friends have nothing to lose in this scenario so that's why they can sit on the  sidelines and give terrible advice.
You're telling me you can date around and find a compatible guy, get serious, and then get to the point where you are married or serious enough to begin TTC in under a year? That's crazy and unrealistic unless you get a donor or you choose the first guy you see and move FAST

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Leave. For your husbands good lol.

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You can’t wait a year? 12 months is not going to change anything with your PCOS.
If you’re thinking about leaving him because you can’t come to a compromise with the person you supposedly love on when to have a baby, you should definitely leave him because that is NOT how love works.
He probably wants to wait until you’re financially secure and finish your schooling before having a child because he wants an equal partnership. Not all men are okay with being the sole provider in the household, which is understandable, especially when a child comes into play. Babies are expensive. He’s being mature by deciding to wait a little longer.

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You are willing to leave your fiancé in the hopes you can find someone else to get pregnant with?! It seems like maybe there are some other issues in the relationship if you are just going to leave and are ready to move on. His reasoning seems logical to me.

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Wait what? Do you love this man or just want his sperm? 
He wants to wait. You’re still in school and y’all aren’t even married yet. 
If you don’t want to wait for him to be ready then ur pretty selfish and so are your friends

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Isn’t it better to finish school, have a high paying job and THEN think about babies? Kids are expensive! And don’t you want to be married first? I’m confused about the part where you say you will leave him for someone else who can get you pregnant in less than a year. I think a sperm bank is a better option than boning randos.

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You should wait, it’ll be a long shot leaving him and finding someone straight away that wants a baby as soon as you both get together.

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Actually, fertility increases with age with PCOS. They are also making huge strides towards expanding treatment options.

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