Okay so my husband is very tall and skinny I am what is considered a bbw. I have always had self esteem issues especially with my weight. Last night my husband was joking around like always and I asked if he was going to eat dinner. He normally goes outside to smoke before he eats and on his way out goes "I don't know I am fat and need to lose weight." I just laughed and said yeah right and I am not pregnant. I am 21 weeks and 4 days btw. Well I have a 7 year old from a previous relationship who turns around "he's not fat is he mom you're the one who's fat." I couldn't help it I just started bawling. I felt so horrible and I didn't even want to talk to him for a little while because I was so hurt and angry that he would say anything like that to anyone. Needless to say I felt like a horrible mom after because I didn't want to talk to him. Anyway end of rant.