Is it time??

Question

Been with boyfriend nearly 9 years we’ve just had a baby who’s 2 months old now! Boyfriends never in the house he never takes us anywhere he gets home really late, he don’t call me through the day, I feel single, is it time to leave him?
He dosent care anymore he’s told me basically through his actions
I’m so tired he don’t help me at all!

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I believe its time. One person always grows up after a baby. The other one doesn't.

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How do you feel?  If you’re asking this question you probably know the relationship sucks and you’re unhappy. How you feel is the only thing that matters.

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Sounds like you are jumping the gun, or maybe looking for an excuse to leave.  COMMUNICATE!  People have different love languages and the stress of having a baby can push people apart.  You've been together for nine years and had a baby together obviously you both stayed for a reason.  You owe it to your child to get counseling and work through things if it's really just a difference in communication.  If there's infidelity or abuse that's different but it sounds like you are just looking for a reason.

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My husband and i had a baby before we were married. He didn’t change a diaper until 6 month and  was out all the time.
It takes time to gain maturity. 
And a really honest, non-accusatory conversation saying i needed him. Maybe he doesn’t know how to be there
For you. Men need told specifically what we need most of the time

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Everyone on here jumps instantly to throw out the dad without talking to work out issues. I feel sorry for the generation of broken home kids.

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So your ready to just give up on a 9 year relationship without even talking to him and trying to figure things out?

Is it time??

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